This comment is such a red flag, lol. If she brought someone else that means she didn’t feel safe alone with you, and apparently you’re only thinking about how that affects you.
Lemmy is such a boys club. It’s astonishing that this is top comment. And my reply will get downvoted by the boys club, as per usual.
Excellent! Your first comment didn’t make it sound like you were thinking about anything other than your own frustration and came off a certain way that I am very used to on Lemmy. Your second comment is a completely different tone and makes me feel like a jerk, lol.
Maybe she thought things were moving too fast?